Advice from the North Korean Underground Church: Stop Making it Easy for People to Become Involved in Your Church or Nonprofit

Last week we had a handyman, Jeff, at our house giving us an estimate on some home repairs. We quickly learned he was a Christian seeking a deeper experience of church. I spent more than two hours with Jeff talking about our .W congregation. He was clearly fascinated, and we ended our time with him pledging to come on Sunday.

Of course he never showed up.

On Sunday, however, I read the following excerpt from the third century document. The Apostolic Tradition by Hippolytus. It sheds light on the practices of the young, underground, persecuted church in the generations shortly after the apostles. The following section in particular caught my interest:

Let those who will be brought newly to the faith to hear the Word be brought first to the teachers before the people arrive. And let them be asked the reason why they have given their assent to the faith. And let those who have brought them bear witness as to whether they are able to hear the Word. And let them be asked about their life: What sort is it?

It reminded me of how underground NK Christians respond even to family members who express an interest in learning more about Christ. In NK, as NK scholar Marcus Noland notes, “Newlyweds will not be informed about their spouse’s family’s religious practices for some time until sufficient trust has developed.”

What a far cry from how I approached handyman Jeff! Imagine how different our conversation would have been had I said, “Jeff, in the early church, before individuals were invited to worship with a particular congregation, congregation leaders would visit them and talk about their lives and why they wanted to follow Christ. If you are interested in getting involved in our church, the first step would be me dropping by your house to meet you and your family and to learn about your lives and your interest in Christ.”

  • How might our churches change if instead of begging people to come, we treated attendance at the assembly as a precious privilege and examined those professing an interest to ensure they were really serious about following Christ as part of our congregation?
  • How might our nonprofits change if instead of begging people to give, we published a gift acceptance policy that said, “We only accept donations that arise out of a larger discipleship process you are undertaking in this cause – either with us as the nonprofit or through your church”?

This post originally appeared in the Prayer Partner Update that Mrs. Foley and I do bi-weekly for the people who donate to our Seoul USA nonprofit for North Korea. If you want to get added to that list, of course, the next step would be for you to email me just so I can verify with you that this e-newsletter will be fitting into a wider discipleship process for you related to the Work of Mercy of visiting and remembering, either with us or with your church…  

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Don’t Settle for Getting People to Give; Instead, Help People Become Habitually More Giving

Best book I’ve read so far this year–Improvisation: The Drama of Christian Ethics, a gem from 2004 by Church of England priest and Christian ethicist Samuel Wells.

(As usual, the best books on giving, discipleship, and fundraising are never the books on giving, discipleship, and fundraising.)

Writes Wells:

Virtue ethics has become a shorthand term for all the writers in the field who have grown tired of the conventional emphasis on decision and the neglect of the character of the person or “agent” making the decision. The emphasis on virtue in Christian ethics has shifted attention from the deed to the doer. It is the agent who matters, more than the action: ethics is about forming the life of the agent more than it is about judging the appropriateness of the action.

As I noted in Monday’s post, this is the shortcoming of fundraising–even Transformational Giving. The focus is on getting individuals to give rather than on helping individuals grow into more habitually giving people.

Wells isn’t writing about fundraising, but his take on moral formation has everything to do with giving. As you read Wells, you recognize that the decision of whether or not an individual will give in response to your request has already been made long before you ask:

In every moral “situation,” the real decisions are ones that have been taken some time before. To live well requires both effort and habit. There is a place for both. But no amount of effort at the moment of decision will make up for effort neglected in the time of formation.

Question: When do fundraisers engage in pre-ask moral formation of their champions?

Answer: Mostly never. Which is why they mine churches for givers. Churches do less pre-ask formation than they should, of course, but odds on there is a weekly ask of some sort, and the topic of giving comes up now and again to buttress it.

Re-read that last sentence from the Wells excerpt above: No amount of effort at the moment of decision will make up for effort neglected in the time of formation.

Prescription: Don’t settle for getting people to give. Instead, help them become more habitual givers. As Wells notes, for Christians the place that happens is worship:

For Christians, the principal practice by which the moral imagination is formed, the principal form of discipleship training, is worship. Worship is the time when the conventional rules of the fallen world are suspended, when God is at last addressed as Lord, when time and heart and voice and posture are directed toward knowing God and making him known, toward experiencing the glorious liberty of being his child, when need and expectation are focused on their true source…

If you haven’t been trained through worship to be generous, then no amount of effort at the moment of decision (of whether or not to give, for example) will make up for effort neglected in the time of formation.

That ought to be equally sobering news for our trinity of churches, Christian nonprofits, and individual Christians. If in our worship all we’re doing is not talking about giving but hoping people give, or raising particular needs to meet but not teaching generosity as a general virtue–and if a growing percentage of Christians are forsaking the assembling together of themselves for worship altogether–then is it any wonder that getting (habitually less generous) people to give is getting harder and harder these days?

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An Open Letter to David Platt and Kevin DeYoung: Let’s Help Kevin’s Loan Officer Get Truly Radical

Dear David and Kevin,

David, Radical: Taking Back Your Faith From the American Dream was a fun and worthwhile read. My congratulations.

Kevin, your review of David’s book was just about as fun and worthwhile as David’s book itself. And you were very respectful and encouraging, too, even in your disagreements with David–a rarity these days.

Gentlemen, Kevin poses a challenge in his review which deserves further consideration. He writes:

I don’t worry for David’s theology, but I worry that some young Christians reading his book might walk away wondering if a life spent working as a loan officer, tithing to their church, praying for their kids, learning to love Christ more, and serving in the Sunday school could possibly be pleasing to God. We need to find a way to attack the American dream while still allowing for differing vocations and that sort of ordinary Christian life that can plod along for fifty years. I imagine David wants this same thing. I’m just not sure this came through consistently in the book.

I think this is a great subject for discussion, Kevin. “Consistently” may be the key word in your analysis.

David, I appreciated your honesty in the book that you are in fact still wrestling personally with this question. Maybe that is what Kevin is sensing when he raises the consistency question. On page 93, David, you wrote:

The more I read the Gospels, the more I marvel at the simple genius of what Jesus was doing with his disciples. My mind tends to wander toward grandiose dreams and intricate strategies, and I’m struck when I see Jesus simply, intentionally, systematically, patiently walking alongside twelve men.

I can sense the struggle on page 83, when you write about what radical abandonment to Christ looks like in ordinary lives: “It sounds idealistic, I know. Impact the world. But doesn’t it also sound biblical?”

It does, yes. And yet…

I read a fascinating article by Shannon Craigo-Snell in the October 2000 issue of Modern Theology magazine (“Command Performance: Rethinking Performance Interpretation in the Context of Divine Discourse“–sorry no link; alas, it’s subscription only) at the same time I was reading Radical. It proposes a different–and, I think, even more compelling and intriguing–definition of biblical. Shannon writes:

We act within the words and images of the Bible and strive to understand our present and envision our future inside the very fabric of the text (emphasis mine).

That’s a definition of biblical that is altogether rare these days, gentlemen.

Shannon adds:

Readers no longer fit themselves into the unified and accurately depicted biblical world in order to understand the stories and orient their lives. Instead, they began to try and fit the biblical stories into a larger and more general framework of meaning.

That, I think, is what makes “impact the world” ultimately a less radical notion of biblical than the one to which Jesus calls us in Matthew 7:24:

 Everyone then who hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house on the rock.

Hear the Word. Do the Word. Repeat. Or, as we say at the beginning of our .W Church meetings:

Beloved, we are brought together in faith and united in the common mission of receiving deeply and passing on fully the grace of God.

What I’m suggesting, gentlemen, is that a loan officer truly hearing and genuinely doing the word of God daily in his own sphere of influence is often far more radical than the retiree who heads to Sri Lanka to cook meals for the hungry in the middle of rebel fighting.

Example: This past month I received emails from four people who want to pay their way to the China border to smuggle Bibles into North Korea. Setting aside for the moment why it’s a supremely bad idea to have non-Korean speaking Caucasians endanger underground NK Christians by leading the police right to their door through their romantic Bible couriering escapades, I note that when I ask these would-be radicals “Have you previously hand-carried a Bible to any of your neighbors on your street?”, they all frown and walk away like the rich young ruler. Of course they haven’t taken Bibles to anyone on their street. That, after all, would be embarrassing.

On page 19 of your book, David, you exhort us, “We need to return with urgency to a biblical gospel.”

Biblical gospel–David, I think that may be the best phrase in your book. Someone may say, “Isn’t ‘biblical gospel’ redundant? Of course the gospel has to be biblical. If it’s not, then it can’t be called gospel.”

But I think that phrase is the key to unlocking the truly radical for Kevin’s imaginary loan officer. Maybe it’s even a helpful way for you, David, to resolve the personal wrestling you mentioned on page 93, which I noted above.

Returning to a Biblical gospel means stepping back into the Bible story without reference to the impact that has on the world.

Now, that doesn’t mean that we insulate ourselves from the billions who have not yet heard the gospel, or the twenty-six thousand children that will die of starvation today. By no means.

It does mean that, like Jesus in John 5:19, we turn the world upside down without ever looking at it, because our eyes are riveted on him:

So Jesus said to them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, the Son can do nothing of his own accord, but only what he sees the Father doing. For whatever the Father does, that the Son does likewise.

Hear the Word. Do the Word. Hear the Word. Do the Word. Never look around to consider whether we’re impacting the world or not. We’re called to be faithful, after all–not radical or impactful.

And that may be the most radical and impactful way of life of all.

With genuine warmth and appreciation from your brother in Christ,

Eric Foley

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