Why I Use The Title Pastor Or Reverend Rather Than My First Name

Post by Pastor Foley–We received a great question earlier this month from a reader who identified himself only as “Tim” (something tells me it’s not our Pastor Tim, but one can never rule out the possibilities). I wanted to highlight his question and my answer here as a way of encouraging you, too, to post your questions or comments in the comment box below in assurance that Pastor Tim and I always read what you write and answer wherever we can.

Q. Why do you wear the title “reverend”? Wouldn’t Matthew 23:9 apply to calling someone “reverend”?     –Tim

A. Hello Tim,

Most people seem to call me Pastor Foley more than Rev. Foley. Others call me Mr. Foley. I avoid calling myself by my first name out of respect for Korean culture, since I am married to a Korean woman and serve in ministry in Korea with a considerable amount of my time. In Korean culture it would be rude and self-aggrandizing to use my first name, calling attention to my individuality and exalting it above my family name and my function in service to God. This is quite a bit different than is the case in the West, so ultimately I have to make a prayerful decision before God and with my accountability partners of what honors God and puts the fewest stumbling blocks in front of people coming to know Christ and reflect him fully.

Myself, I read Jesus’ concern here in Matthew 23:9ff as related to offering and receiving honor which is due only to God. My own experience is that Pastor and Reverend are no longer titles of honor in our culture but rather titles of derision. I cannot recall receiving personal benefit from being called Pastor or Reverend, but I can recall being mocked, being tracked by the government, being denied entry to countries because of it, and being pigeonholed by others (both believers and nonbelievers) before I open my mouth. So if I perceive that someone is calling me Pastor or Reverend to give me honor, I undertake to correct them. But in the corner of the world where I do most of my work, i.e., North Korea, the name Reverend is more likely to get me killed than honored.

Thanks for understanding, and I continue to pray that I have not placed undue stumbling blocks in your path or the paths of others in this attempt to honor Christ and his word.

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Video – What is Philanthropy, Really?

Pastor Foley says that the modern understanding of philanthropy as giving away big money is completely wrong. One of the earliest occurrences of the term “philanthropy” in history comes from the Scripture, in Paul’s letter to Titus. Philanthropy literally means “the love of humanity”–God’s love for humanity, not humanity’s love for each other. The word philanthropy is the best description for the overarching mission of Christ, according to Paul in Titus. And Christ’s philanthropy is what enables us to “do” anything in the Christian life, whether that be confession of sin, reading the Bible, or doing good works.

YouTube Video Link – http://youtu.be/fLWfgJK6E7g

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The Lost Art of Christian Memorization and Why it’s Important

WLO_Blog_WheelPost by Pastor Tim.  Last week, I wrote that my family was taking discipleship seriously by memorizing and understanding the Nicene Creed, the Lord’s Prayer and the Ten Commandments.  On Monday, Pastor Foley wrote about the importance of memorizing Scripture and participating in a Christian Catechesis.  That’s all well and good, but why is it important and how does someone go about memorizing and incorporating these into one’s daily life?

Why is it important?  It’s important because the above examples are simple ways to learn the key doctrines of the Christian faith.   Many Christians shudder at the mention of memorizing doctrine, creeds and commandments, but followers of Jesus throughout history (maybe barring our generation) have taken these things to heart.  These ancient practices not only help us to strengthen our faith, but they also help us to spot the counterfeits.    On October 16, 2012, the CNN Belief Blog printed this story in relation to Billy Graham’s endorsing of Mitt Romney:

In a section of the website called Billy Graham’s My Answer there had been the question “What is a cult?”

Answer: “A cult is any group which teaches doctrines or beliefs that deviate from the biblical message of the Christian faith.”

“Some of these groups are Jehovah’s Witnesess, Mormons, the Unification Church, Unitarians, Spritualists, Scientologists, and others,” the site continued.

While there is certainly an interesting back-story to the above blog piece, I’m most interested in the “answer” section as documented by CNN. The problem is not so much the Billy Graham Association’s definition of a cult (before they removed it from their web-site that is), but in the judging of what the “biblical message of the Christian faith” is and in the understanding of which doctrines are essential and which are not? In other words, how do we spot the counterfeits?

The bottom-line is that we can know these things by being saturated with Scripture and by learning the basic doctrines of the Christian faith through studying the creeds, prayers and commandments!

How do we memorize?  Just for the record . . . I am not an expert on memorization; in fact I am probably at the bottom-of-the-barrel.  Because of that fact, I use whatever means necessary to help me remember.  Our household is often seen making funny gestures to help memorize Scripture or even using a cute children’s song as was the case for the Nicene Creed.  The same was true for the Ten Commandments, when we learned a summary of the Ten Commandments using the below words with this tune at freechurchmusic.com.


I AM the Lord your God; you must worship only Me.  Don’t make for yourself idols; to no image bow your knee.  Never misuse My Name; always speak it reverently.  Remember the Sabbath; a day of rest it shall be.  Honor your father and mother that you may live long lives.  Shun murder, and adultery, and stealing, and lies.  Don’t covet your neighbor’s house, or lust for your neighbor’s wife.  Don’t envy anything at all that’s in your neighbor’s life.

How do we incorporate this into our daily life?  This is actually occurs more naturally than you might suspect.  It’s true that my family uses every opportunity to practice our memorizing including at the breakfast table, in the car, during family church time and even when we go out to eat at a restaurant!  The bottom-line is that we try to never miss an opportunity.  And in so doing, we see this becoming a part of us so much so that we are often singing or sharing Scripture no matter where we are (at home, at church and at the grocery store).  Ultimately, our goal (and one of the most gratifying parts) is seeing our children (and the adults too) not only memorize these things, but also start to process them and use them in our day to day lives.

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