How to Start a Lay Church, Principle X: Use Volunteer Lay Pastors to Lead Local Churches

It’s hard being a pastor in a traditional church setting. You have to be a theologian, a public speaker, a counselor, a manager, an event planner, a fundraiser, a mediator, a facilities manager, and about a hundred other things. No wonder professional training is needed and burnout is so high.

As we worked with the North Korean underground church, however–arguably in an infinitely more stressful environment–we didn’t find burnout.

Come to think of it, we didn’t find full time paid pastors either.

Instead we found a very different model—one which, the more we reflected on it, seemed to have more in common with the New Testament model than the Western model with which most of us are familiar.

It also seemed to be growing Christians to fullness in Christ on a much more regular (and rapid) schedule than anything we saw happening in traditional Western congregations–even though the environment in North Korea is anything but regular.

The North Korean underground church—along with other persecuted churches around the world and throughout history (not least of which would be the churches named in the New Testament)—has had to learn ways of worship that do not depend on full-time local church pastors. Fathers, mothers, and household leaders became the natural overseers of churches that met in homes. If pastors visit (which, in NK, they typically can’t), they supplement–not replace–the pastoral oversight of the family head or neighborhood lay leader.

And such a model is hardly a New Testament relic or an inevitable result of living in a country where being a Christian will get you killed. It’s the model that John Wesley pressed into service, first in England and then in North America, when the Wesleyan Revival produced the kind of converts in the kind of places that didn’t much mesh well with the prevailing church model. Wesley appointed band leaders, local pastors, and circuit riders to do the kinds of things that today have been centralized in one figure: the pastor. What such centralization may gain in efficiency it loses—dramatically—in promoting maturity.

Meaning: if the pastor preaches in your church every Sunday, it’s unlikely that the average church member will learn to preach.

If, however, the pastor stops by once every six weeks…or six months…or (as in North Korea) never, then it’s amazing how well other folks learn to preach.

And do theology.

And counsel.

And manage.

And plan events.

And fundraise.

And mediate.

And manage facilities (which, in this case, aren’t church buildings but rather homes and other public places specially re-tooled to host church worship; in our house, for example, we’ve got this giant altar table right about where a big screen TV would sit in most homes).

And do about a hundred other things that develop when volunteer lay pastors are used to lead lay churches.

Like help ordinary Christians grow to fullness in Christ, by the power of the Holy Spirit.

In the early church, leadership wasn’t something you chose to “go into,” like a profession. It was something you grew into, as you grew to fullness in Christ and people recognized this about you—that you could help them grow in the same way. It’s what enabled Paul to say, in 1 Corinthians 11:1, “Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ.”

So using volunteer lay pastors is more than a tactical model with strategic benefits (like keeping costs low, which it does, of course). Using volunteer lay pastors ensures that the lay church places the highest priority on each member growing to fullness in Christ. Also, by making sure that all local lay pastors are volunteers, the local pastor serves as a model for each member of the congregation to imitate–as they imitate Christ.

So does this mean bible school and seminary and ordination are obsolete? By no means. They make perfect sense for people moving beyond the oversight of a single lay church, to regional church oversight. It is only at the level of a regional leader that there should be any pay or seminary training contemplated. And that pay should be something like a stipend—just enough to offset costs, not enough to cause someone to aspire to the position as a means of supporting himself or herself.

Remember: lay churches are small—two dozen people would be splitting the seams of one. And the purpose of the lay church is to grow members to fullness in Christ so that each one can lead their own lay church…as a volunteer lay pastor.

So right from the outset, make clear that members are permitted only one year “in the nest” of your lay church. Each lay church is composed of lay church planters in training. Each attendee is a church in seed form and should be trained and treated as such not only from the very first Sunday they arrive, but from their recruitment (see Principle 1 earlier in this series, and also check out 2 Timothy 2:2).

Oh—and one more note: We don’t say to our lay pastors, “Share a message each week that you dig out of a devotional magazine or a small group study series you think might be useful.” The message that lay pastors are sharing each week is one that the church’s ordained regional leaders have written, focused on the Work of Mercy that we’re hearing and doing that month. It’s a process much like that of John Wesley, who supplied books of sermons to his lay pastors and directed them to preach those messages.

So lay aside the goal of creating a big lay church. There’s no need (or value) in creating a congregation bigger than the ones in the Bible. Even Romans was written to a cluster of several small lay churches. Keep the size small enough so that each person is leading the whole group in something each week.

And twelve months is enough time to go through one Whole Life Offering cycle—one month of preparation, ten months of focusing on one Work of Mercy each month, and then one month of reflection and celebration. Then each member heads out…to head up their own lay church!

This doesn’t mean that the groups divide, like in a small group model. It really does mean that each member—or family unit (like a husband and wife) is heading out to head up their own lay church. For each person (or unit), that new lay church will be drawn from the individuals in their sphere of influence who they’ve evangelized and already begun to disciple as a result of doing the word in each of the Works of Mercy in year one.

The “nest” doesn’t get tossed into the trash can, however. The lay church that graduates its members also graduates itself, becoming a leaders’ meeting. The meeting time moves off of Sunday morning (since the new lay pastors will likely be leading new groups then) and moves to, for example, in our case, a Tuesday night. The lay pastor becomes a regional pastor, using the leaders’ meetings to train each of the members to be lay pastors.

And so on it continues from year to year—a 2 Timothy 2:2 symphony.

Some might wonder if it’s a realistic expectation for ordinary Christians to become lay pastors in a year. After all, many traditional congregations go years without producing even one pastor.

But in places where Christians are persecuted (including most all of the churches in the New Testament), there’s a word for a congregation that goes years without producing a pastor.

Extinct.

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How to Start a Lay Church, Principle IX: Leave the Kids in the Room with You When You’re Doing Church

Humanity is mimetic, which is a fancy way of saying that God has wired us to learn by imitation far more than by any other method, whether explanation or training or emotional stimulation.

Or coloring book page or Veggie Tales video.

So we shouldn’t be surprised by the report from the Barna Research Group on who teens turn to as role models. The upshot of that study:

Even while limiting the answers to non-parents, family members still comes out on top. The most commonly mentioned role model is a relative—37% of teens named a relation other than their parent as the person they admire most. This is typically a grandparent, but also includes sisters, brothers, cousins, aunts, and uncles. After “family,” teens mention teachers and coaches (11%), friends (9%), and pastors or other religious leaders they know personally (6%).

Animated talking vegetables and Bible superhero action figures failed to make the cut.

But equally important to who youth regard as role models is why. The Barna study provides the answer: character in proximity. No shocker here: We become like who we’re around.

That being the case, why do we pull children out of “big church” and put them in “children’s church” where they are robbed of the ability to imitate us? Is it any wonder that kids drop out of church with clockwork regularity when they hit college age, since they’ve had no experience imitating adult Christians?

In 1 Corinthians 11:1, Paul writes, ‘Imitate me, just as I also imitate Christ,’ and in 2 Thessalonians 3:7, he adds, ‘For you yourselves know how you ought to follow our example.’

But how would children know how to follow our example if they never see it?

I know, I know: left in the “main sanctuary,” kids swing from the ceiling fans during sermons and make lots of unsolemn noises during prayer time. So we pull them out of the main sanctuary and plop them down in a kiddie sanctuary and give them kiddie versions of sermons, songs, Scriptures, and offering times. Goal: that the kiddie versions would train them for the real thing.

Reality: the kiddie versions teach them that sermons, songs, Scriptures, and offering times are for kiddies.

So endure the pain, the swinging from the ceiling fans, the unsolemn noises. They watch more than you think they do, you know.

When I lead the Korean .W congregation by videoconference, I don’t speak Korean, so while they pray I’m free to occasionally crack one eyelid open and survey the situation. Without fail, I see the children watch an adult pray—for just a moment, and then they go back to coloring or swinging from the chandelier or smashing a sibling’s face into the ground.

Point is, you have to be willing to endure the awkwardness in order to let the kid get close enough to you for long enough to observe you and imitate you.

Gerald Schlabach, author of Unlearning Protestantism, a brilliant book on how to be Protestant in all of the right ways and none of the wrong ones (after all, knowing what to protest and what not to is half the battle), notes that we moderns “have ever fewer resources for forming lives of Christian discipleship or communities of Christian witness.” That’s especially true of our children. All of the Veggie Tales videos and Bible superhero action figures in the Sunday School room can’t take the place of what you learn by watching your parents worship–and by joining in, no matter how clumsily or sporadically.

Habits require training, as one internalizes moral motor skills that one can only clumsily imitate at first, based on the example of others. If those habits are to be good rather than bad, however, practitioners must apprentice with those more advanced in the craft–in this case, the craftlike practice of Christian discipleship.

Imitation, not age-appropriate curriculum design, is the key method the Scripture commends for making disciples. And it’s the key method for how kids—and all human beings–learn. We’re mimetic. Kids stop going to church when they become adults because they never saw how adults act as Christians.

So leave your kids in the room when you’re doing lay church. Have them learn the same songs and stories you learn at the same time, in the same way. As they get older, practice reciting the Bible stories you’re learning in front of them, with them holding the Bible and correcting you when you mess up.

But rather than write more, let me just invite you to listen to the audio below. It’s one of the Korean dads in our .W/Korea congregation being imitated by his three and five year old (ostensibly non-English speaking) sons in their family worship time as they both learn the song assigned for the week in .W church.

Enjoy–and imitate.

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How to Start a Lay Church, Principle VIII: Measure the Growth of Each Member Weekly

It’s a fair question to ask: Is spiritual growth really measurable? What would we measure? And how would we measure it?

Some Christians cringe at the very idea of trying to measure spiritual things. They think of spiritual things as being so, well, spiritual that any attempt to measure them at best cheapens the Christian life and at worst plunges us into the silliest kinds of legalism as we endeavor—foolishly—to trap bits of God in a paper bag. “You can measure how many chapters of the Bible I’m reading a day,” they challenge, “But since when does that show whether I’m growing as a Christian?”

True, that. Measuring things like church attendance, Bible reading, and minutes spent in prayer daily are hardly reliable predictors of much of anything (save, perhaps, legalism). Cue the verses here about Jesus rebuking the Pharisees for tithing mint and dill and cumin and neglecting the weightier matters of the law (Matthew 23:23) or Jesus rebuking the Pharisees for searching the Scriptures but missing profoundly how they testify of him (John 5:39) or Jesus rebuking the Pharisees for just about everything. In fact, you might be able to make a decent case that Jesus’ disdain for the Pharasaical is a disdain for what Pharisees choose to measure.

But that shouldn’t scare us away from all measurement of spiritual growth. To the contrary, as in the case of the Pharisees, what we measure (and what we fail to measure) provides penetrating insights into what’s really important to us. (Where your measure is there your heart is also?)

In Principle VII we talked about how hearing and doing the word are two sides of the same coin, and that what keeps doing from being works righteous is doing the word, which, by definition, launches us clear out of the realm of human merit and into the realm of God “making his appeal through us” (2 Corinthians 5:20)—God doing through us what only God can do. We pass on, in other words, only what we have received from him.

In the same way, helpful measurements of spiritual growth involve a repentant turning away from measuring human activity–e.g., Bible chapters and prayer minutes per day–and turning toward the evidences of God’s strength and power that are observable in and around us—e.g., us forgiving and reconciling with our enemies in Jesus’ name.

Interestingly, that’s what the scriptures show God measuring:

  • Sometimes He measures the absence of divine activity (like in Matthew 23:32, where Jesus challenges, ‘Fill up, then, the measure of the sin of your forefathers!’).
  • Sometimes He measures the inhibition of divine activity (like in Hebrews 5:12, where the writer castigates, ‘In fact, though by this time you ought to be teachers, you need someone to teach you the elementary truths of God’s word all over again. You need milk, not solid food!’).
  • But most often scripture shows God measuring His own presence in us.

The perfect illustration of the last point is 2 Peter 1:3-9. Give it a careful read in light of the subject of what we measure:

His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness. Through these he has given us his very great and precious promises, so that through them you may participate in the divine nature and escape the corruption in the world caused by evil desires. For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; and to godliness, brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness, love. For if you possess these qualities in increasing measure, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.

The list starts with faith–so that no one can boast–and continues on with qualities that, properly understood, are authentically divine, not human. When we measure those weekly, we prevent ourselves and our fellow lay church members from being ineffective and unproductive. Sadly, that’s a measure that few churches make at the level of individual members–which is probably what explains the ineffectiveness and unproductiveness of many folks hanging around church these days.

But someone might protest that God’s activity is not easily detectable or definable. Like Jesus says in John 3:8, “The wind blows wherever it pleases. You hear its sound, but you cannot tell where it comes from or where it is going. So it is with everyone born of the Spirit.”

But in that verse Jesus is not claiming that we won’t recognize God’s work when we see it (just check out Romans 1 for Paul’s argument to the contrary); rather, He is claiming that God’s work is not subject to human structures or boundaries–which is why in lay church the focus is not on measuring organizational statistics. The lay church is just the tomato trellis, so to speak–vital to the growth of healthy tomatoes, but not the subject of our measurements (except insofar as we seek to determine if we are an effective trellis!).

In Matthew 13:31-33 Jesus tells parables about yeast and mustard seeds, two entities barely visible at first. Two lessons can be drawn:

  1. God’s work in the lives of lay church members may be barely observable at first, but it is well worth our keen observation—it’s nothing less than how we “see God”;
  2. By God’s grace that barely observable work can grow until it is apparent to everyone.

So in lay church no small time is devoted to enabling each member to self-assess their spiritual growth weekly—and to grow from the helpful inquiries of others.

Few were better at this than John Wesley, the founder of Methodism. He trained his lay leaders to open every meeting with these kinds of measurement questions. (Elmer Towns does a nice job of updating these questions in the recognition that members at different levels of spiritual development benefit from different types of questions—check out his three sets of questions for members at various levels of Christian maturity.)

Measuring the growth of each member of your lay church weekly trains them—and you—to train your eyes on the kind of things that only God can do–and is doing–in your midst.

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