What Can I Say to Comfort Someone Who is Sick?

Want to avoid saying something foolish to someone who is sick and instead bring genuine and well grounded comfort? Commit Robert Herrick’s 17th Century litany to memory.

(Extra credit if you learn the tune that goes with it.)

His Litany to the Holy Spirit

In the hour of my distress, 
When temptations me oppress, 
And when I my sins confess, 
Sweet Spirit comfort me! 

When I lie within my bed, 
Sick in heart, and sick in head, 
And with doubts discomforted, 
Sweet Spirit comfort me! 

When the house doth sigh and weep, 
And the world is drown’d in sleep, 
Yet mine eyes the watch do keep, 
Sweet Spirit comfort me! 

Whe the artless doctor sees 
No one hope but of his fees, 
And his skill runs on the lees,
Sweet Spirit comfort me! 

When his potion and his pill, 
Has or none or little skill, 
Meet for nothing, but to kill, 
Sweet Spirit comfort me! 

When the passing-bell doth toll, 
And the Furies in a shoal 
Come to fright a parting soul, 
Sweet Spirit comfort me! 

When the tapers now burn blue, 
And the comforters are few, 
And that number more than true, 
Sweet Spirit comfort me! 

When the priest his last hath prayed, 
And I nod to what is said, 
‘Cause my speech is now decayed, 
Sweet Spirit comfort me! 

When (God knows) I’m toss’d about, 
Either with despair or doubt, 
Yet before the glass be out,
Sweet Spirit comfort me! 

When the Tempter me pursu’th 
With the sins of all my youth, 
And half damns me with untruth, 
Sweet Spirit comfort me! 

When the flames and hellish cries 
Fright mine ears and fright mine eyes, 
And all terrors me surprise, 
Sweet Spirit comfort me! 

When the Judgment is revealed, 
And that open’d which was seal’d, 
When to Thee I have appeal’d, 
Sweet Spirit comfort me! 

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Why Doesn’t God Heal Everyone?

Actually, he does. Most assuredly. It is a cardinal article of our faith.

I know that my redeemer lives,
and that in the end he will stand on the earth.
26 And after my skin has been destroyed,
yet in my flesh I will see God;
27 I myself will see him
with my own eyes—I, and not another.
How my heart yearns within me!
–Job 19:25-27, NIV

No illness, in other words, can ultimately endure his return in final glory. The day will come when he dries every tear and grants us new and perfect bodies, as well as a new heavens and a new earth in which we will dwell forever in his presence. When that will happen, we know neither the day nor the hour.

But our hearts ought to yearn for it unceasingly.

What we really mean when we ask why God doesn’t heal everyone is, “Why doesn’t God heal everyone right when they ask, precisely in the way that they desire?”

For the answer to that question, I commend to you the rest of the Book of Job. Just be prepared for God to ask a challenging question or two of his own in the process.

Who is this that darkeneth counsel by words without knowledge?
Job 38:2, KJV

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How To Increase Your Chances of Getting Healed

That’s the title of a video I found as I was committing random acts of Googling related to the subject of healing and comforting.

The speaker in the video, Rev. Steve Cioccolanti, offers several recommendations based on his statistical analysis of incidents of healings in the New Testament. Rev. Cioccolanti notes that 72% of those healed in the New Testament are healed by their own intiative, compared to only 28% of individuals who were sitting around minding their own business at the time Jesus healed them.

On the basis of his statistical analysis, Rev. Cioccolanti recommends:

  • Be the squeaky wheel. Quiet Christians don’t get much.
  • Worship exuberantly and exhibit visible faith (e.g., get your hands up and your mouth open)

Rev. Cioccolanti contrasts this high percentage approach with those who “sit and wait” and believe that if God intends to heal them he will do so sovereignly, regardless of any action or attitude on their part. Says Cioccolanti:

Now if my chances are less than 30% that that’s going to succeed, I don’t like those chances. I’m going to put myself in the other camp, where the chances are very high.

So what’s the problem here? After all, Rev. Cioccolanti has statistics on his side.

Just this:

Rev. Cioccolanti omits Option C, which is a better fit for the data.

If Option A (the 72% option) is being squeaky, and Option B (the 28% option) is being silent, then Option C (the 100% option) is being steadfastly committed to the belief that God is always and actively good.

It would be puzzling if a belief in the unassailable goodness of God drove us to silent suffering in the face of illness (why would we be silent if we knew God was good and has welcomed us to approach him about anything?). It would be equally puzzling if an unshakable belief in God’s goodness prompted us to think that any amount of arm raising or mouth opening could make him any gooder than he already is by nature.

Should we pray for God to heal us when we are sick? Without a doubt.

Should we believe that whether we are healed or not God is actively doing good to us? Absolutely. Nothing–not even the persistence of illness in our bodies–ought to cause us to question the proactive, comprehensive, grace-drenched goodness of God.

While we were yet sinners, Christ died for us…

While our finger shook at him accusingly. While our mouths called down curses on him.

God blesses us at every moment. We open our mouths and raise our hands not to increase our chances of receiving a blessing but rather because we know every blessing is already ours in Christ and always will be.

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