The Church’s Big Problem of Discipleship . . . and Mine Too!

WLO_Blog_WheelPost by Pastor Tim. I’ll cut right to the chase . . . the church is failing miserably at discipleship.  Thankfully, this doesn’t apply to all churches, but I’m afraid it may paint a pretty accurate picture of many churches within North America.

I was struck by this truth as I attended a recent service at a large, well-known church in our area this past year.   As we walked into the church, we were whisked away to a large room with snacks for the adults and crafts for the kids.  This was where we were greeted by friendly volunteers, and where we received the welcome packet to end all welcome packets.

Once in the sanctuary, I was struck by the beauty of the décor, the grandeur of the large choir, and I was intrigued by the artist stationed at the front of the sanctuary with a large canvas.  Ultimately, the music was pretty cool, the technology was up-to-date, the children’s sermon was funny and the service was broadcast around the world!  Oh . . . and the artist’s final rendition related to the main point of the pastor’s message (he painted throughout the whole service).

There is nothing necessarily bad in what I recounted above, but I was disturbed when I began to realize that this service did nothing more than tickle my fancy.  Simply put, it made me feel good, but it did nothing to help me grow in Christ.

This is not just the institutional church’s fault, it’s actually my fault as well.  Throughout the course of my Christian walk, I’ve been more enamored with contemporary Christian music, Jesus breath mints, and which NFL star thanked God, rather than ensuring that I’m not the foolish man talked about by Christ in Matthew 7:24-27.

As a whole, we have focused too much on the fluff, the feeling good and appealing to the un-churched that we forgot about the high-cost associated with following Jesus (Luke 9:57-62).  Admittedly, some churches stay away from the fluff, but even when a church is focused on good things such as Bible study and prayer they may still miss the mark of truly learning and growing in Christ.   Tim Keller points to this when he says, “Modern discipleship programs concentrate on practices such as Bible study, prayer, fellowship and evangelism and can at times be superficial when it comes to doctrine.”  In other words, long-tenured Christians often don’t even know the foundational doctrines of what they believe!

Essentially, a disciple is a person who learns to be like Jesus and learns to do what Jesus did.  But if our eyes are on the flashing lights, the cute sermons and the latest Christian gossip then we’ve failed to be properly grounded for discipleship.

My family has taken this “grounding” seriously.   One way that we’ve done this (and I’d challenge you to do the same) has been the memorization and understanding of the Nicene Creed, the Lord’s Prayer and the Ten Commandments.  It certainly doesn’t sound too flashy, but then again we are trying to stay away from the flash and the fluff and instead commit ourselves to being disciples!

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For Disciples of Christ There Are No Random Acts Of Kindness, Only Acts Of Greater and Greater Preparation Leading To The Cross

WLO_Blog_WheelI am hoping against hope that the California megachurch that “decided to shower its community with gifts of love and service for 25 days” this Christmas is spending January helping each participant debrief the experience and think individually about what they learned and how the Holy Spirit may build upon each experience in the year to come.

My experience has been that we churches are not so much inclined to reflect on and learn from our efforts to do good, however, which explains why we may not be so great at doing good well.

We have a tendency to think that doing good is relatively easy when we get around to it, and the challenge is really just making the time. But in a training I did this past month of missionaries serving in some of the toughest places on earth, I led a seemingly simple “do the Word” exercise with them. I gave them $10, two hours, and the text of Isaiah 58. Then I divided them up into teams of two and dispatched them out into a pouring rainstorm and told them, “Having heard this Word, now go and do this Word, to the glory and praise of God.”

They all returned an hour and a half later, absolutely drenched but praising God for the works he worked through themand noting how amazingly challenging it was to do good well.

And that is one of several distinguishing differences between random acts of kindness and doing the Word:

Random acts of kindness lead people to feel a little better about themselves and a little more grateful to God, while making the world a little bit brighter. But doing the Word leads the disciples of Christ to deny themselves, take up their crosses daily, and mirror his image ever more fully into an ever more hostile world.

This principle is well illustrated in These Are The Generations, the book I wrote with third generation underground Christians from North Korea. The parents of one of my co-authors, Mr. Bae, are in a concentration camp in North Korea as a result of their Christian activities. Mr. Bae’s wife, Mrs. Bae writes that this is no tragedy but rather the direct result of a lifetime of doing the Word at greater and greater levels of faithfulness and reliance on God:

When my husband was little, my husband’s mother asked my husband’s grandfather, “Dad, did you really hear God’s voice?” When he told her yes, she pressed him for all the details. He shared how God’s voice had been especially clear to him when he had been fasting, praying, or sleeping. My mother-in-law told him that she’d like to hear God as he had heard. She was sad that she couldn’t hear God, and she prayed for a faith as deep as his.

When my husband was a boy, he and his family were exiled to the barren countryside when his mother refused to turn away even a criminal in need. And when her husband reminded her that it was this kindness that had consigned the family to such a place, she replied, “We should always live out our faith every moment and never let it be shaken.”

When things worsened, she asked her family matter-of-factly, “Why am I supposed to be afraid of anything? God is on my side, and he’ll make a way for us. Even in the hard times, he’ll solve all our problems. Why should we focus on the difficulties?”

Somewhere in a concentration camp in North Korea today, a prisoner is hearing for the first time about Noah’s Ark, Sodom and Gomorrah, and the way people were created, all because God loves people so much that he will even send his short, stoop-shouldered eighty-year-old messenger into a concentration camp to tell them the good news.

In this month of preparation, let’s resolve to take the randomness out of kindness. Acts like the ones that drove Mr. Bae’s mother into a concentration camp are quite literally the least random things on earth.

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Podcast – Why Individual Study Bible-Based Bible Study is Foolish

Post by Pastor Tim – Instead of the weekly sermon highlight video, here’s a listen to what consistently gets described as our most entertaining (though always deep) resource: The free weekly Q&A podcast with DH and Pastor Foley. This week’s podcast is a must-hear, as, among other things, Pastor Foley recommends buying the best study Bible you can . . . and then using scissors to cut out all the study notes. He also describes individual Bible study as “as dangerous as cutting the tag off a mattress.”  Don’t miss this opportunity to hear Pastor Foley unplugged!

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Click here to go to our Q & A Audio.

You also may have noticed that the title of our blog recently changed to “Do the Word” and our primary domain name to dotheword.org (you can still reach the blog by going to ericfoley.com).  Don’t be worried, Pastor Foley is still going to be blogging on the same schedule as usual, and the content of the blog will not change at all either.  He simply wanted the name of our blog to better reflect the overall focus of this ministry!

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