Video – How Christ Used Hospitality Differently Than We Do

Pastor Tim reviews the lesson from the third week of opening your home.  Jesus  often shared the gospel message within the context of receiving hospitality from others.  How much different is Christ’s model of evangelism than our present day model, which always involves “us” as the hosts!

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I’ll Take “Nicene Creed Punctuation” For $200, Alex . . .

WLO_openhomeFrom Pastor Tim — At the end of every month, our church practices Offering Sunday.  Once a month on Offering Sunday, we give our tithe, and we hold each other accountable on how we have handled the scriptures, the songs, our witness to others, and on the disbursement of our tithes within our sphere of influence.  If you’re a little curious on the specifics of what we do, Pastor Foley did a great job explaining the concept of the tithe and Offering Sunday in a July 2011 blog piece.

I wanted to share with you a little bit about our most recent Offering Sunday, because we did something a bit challenging and different.  Remember, that our Sunday worship services are not traditional worship services with visitors and guests. They are leadership
training events, where household leaders receive guidance on leading their household worship in the coming week and testing on their leadership the prior week. Other household members are typically present, but they are there under the oversight of each household leader; the focus here is on equipping and assessing the leaders.  We believe that worship takes place in every household every day, and the Sunday training powers that. So, on this particular leadership training day we all played a Jeopardy style quiz game.

This was certainly fun (especially for the children), although we didn’t do this for the purpose of having fun.  We also didn’t do it for the purpose of testing our “Bible Trivia” knowledge.  The purpose was actually much more serious.   We wanted to challenge ourselves and really see if we were committing to memory the Scriptures, Songs and Liturgy, not just from the past month . . . but from the whole year!

During this game, we reviewed Scripture references, the first lines of songs, the exact wording of the Scriptures themselves, and pieces of our liturgy.  And would you believe we were even tested on the punctuation of the Nicene Creed!?  Remember that punctuation changes everything.  For example, “Let’s eat grandma . . . or . . . Let’s eat, grandma.”

Some of the leaders of DOTW fellowship wondered aloud if we were being a bit too technical on what we were being tested on, and I have to admit that it crossed my mind as well.  But by wondering aloud, we were able to talk together on why or why not this kind of memorization was necessary.  For example, I shared that the last time I was oversees, I was called upon to lead a church service, scripture memorization, singing, preaching and communion.  And if this ever happens again, and I don’t have my Bible or my hymnal, but I’ve committed all these elements to memory, then I’m able to do this in any place and at any time.

If we consider this example, a little closer to home, it might be practical to think about sharing a scripture passage with a friend.  If you have committed the scripture passage to memory, then you are able to share that passage with your friend regardless of whether you have the hard copy of your Bible with you.  And to be honest, I don’t often carry my Bible to the grocery store, the gas station, or the park.

The memorization that our church does is not for the purpose of creating an extensive list of do’s and don’ts.  And it’s not an additional list of good works that we believe are needed to please God.  It’s a realization that in order to grow in Christ there are certain things that we need to commit ourselves to do.  Essentially, it’s a commitment to both hear and do the word, like the wise man in the Matthew 7:24-27 passage.

And in case you haven’t noticed, a common theme for everyone in our church (not just the pastor) is to be ready to “preach, pray or die at a moment’s notice.”

Ultimately, most of our DOTW church leaders did okay with our game show, but each of us were also challenged to commit ourselves to grow in our knowledge of God’s word and the essentials of the faith.

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Resolving To Open Your Home Is One Thing; Actually Getting Anyone To Take You Up On The Offer Is Another

WLO_openhomeHere is a humbling realization about opening your home:

After we overcome what John Piper aptly calls “the natural gravity of our self-centered life,” we will usually find that there is no line of strangers beating down our door eager to gain entrance.

I was reminded of this personally just last month. Mrs. Foley had gone to Korea a week ahead of me. I stayed behind in Colorado to speak at a Voice of the Martyrs conference. Good friends of ours were motoring into town in their RV to participate in the conference. Certainly I should open our home to them, especially since this is, you know, the month we focus on the Work of Mercy of opening your home and these were, you know, our good friends. Talk about a hospitality slam dunk.

So I offered. And they declined–quite graciously, I might note.

Of course I understood. They live in their RV. Staying with our family would be fun for all but as inconvenient as us being invited to a sleepover. Routines would be disrupted. There would be little chance for rest and the ever-present flood of work. It would be hard to know what to pack and what to leave behind in the RV.

In the end, we opted to do church together Sunday and dinner together a few days later. It was enjoyable, simple, and satisfying.

And yet…

Romans 12:13 phrases the command provocatively: pursue hospitality. The Greek here is funny, really. It means chase hospitality. Run swiftly after it. Trouble people about it. Or as John Piper paraphrases it:

Build a launching pad. Fill up your boosters. And blast out of your self-oriented routine. Stop neglecting hospitality.

It turns out, as is also the case with all of the other Works of Mercy, that the primary purpose of engaging in opening your home isn’t to solve the problem of homelessness in your city but to shape you just a bit more in the image of Christ.

I came to that recognition because in our .W Church we undertake an After Action Review at the end of each month on Offering Sunday. We each reflect publicly on what we learned through engaging in the Work of Mercy for the month, and how we’ll proceed with it as we move forward. I realized that I should have troubled my out of town guests much further than I did about staying with me. I should have, in other words, said something like this:

Friends, I need you to do me and the kids a big favor: Stay in our home while you’re in the Springs. I know it will be an inconvenience for you to pack a bag and park the RV, but especially with Mrs. Foley in Korea, this is the best chance I’m going to get this year to work on my hospitality skills. And believe me, my hospitality skills need work. I coast by on the fumes of Mrs. F’s nonstop hospitality motor. It’s time for me to submit to the Holy Spirit and do some growing in this area myself.

This is a hard one for me. As a Hilton Hhonors Super-Duper Hotel Club Member, I’m the last guy who wants to stay in someone else’s home when I travel. I’m literally out speaking at least a few days each week nearly every week of the year. I value the privacy and quiet of crashing at the hotel when I’m done for the day. I want to call my wife, answer my emails, work out in the hotel gym, get my frequent traveler hotel points to redeem for our annual family trip, and go to bed. Call me selfish, but I do not want to be the guinea pig as  other Christians practice hospitality on me and learn how to host someone who is always traveling.

And then I remember that the Apostle Paul was the original Christian frequent traveler. And I think what it must have been like for Jesus to stay in a different home in his city-a-night whirlwind ministry tours. And I suspect there was more at issue here than logistical lodging necessity.

And so I re-read Romans 12:13 and am struck anew how much Christian growth we Christian travelers forfeit to Hilton and Marriott and Comfort Suites because of  the natural gravity of our self-centered lives.

Tea, anyone?

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