How To Take Time To Reflect This Holiday Season

maturewheel_2Post by Pastor Tim – This past week my family has hosted a Christmas party, planned for an upcoming Christmas cookie exchange (also at our house), put up Christmas lights, attended a middle school band concert, started a new job, went Christmas shopping, designed a 2014 family picture calendar . . . and the list goes on and on and on.  Does it sound anything like your December schedule?

We barely had time to think about the present, let alone reflect on the past.  And yet, I think one of the greatest blessings of the week was what my wife and I learned about how to reflect during even the busiest times of the year.

Reflect Before the Hosting – One of our goals in 2013, was to intentionally “Open our Home” at least once a month.  This was meant not to limit the number of guests that would visit, but to ensure that we were making a consistent effort to share Christ in this manner. During our time of reflection, we found that we more than met our goal, but that prayerful pre-reflection and planning was often lacking when we hosted.  In other words, we weren’t always seeking the Lord and asking him who we should host, how we should host and when we should host.  We determined to make a new goal in relation to our 2014 hosting, and that new goal was to bathe all of our hosting in prayer, and seek the Lord more in our hosting opportunities than we had in 2013.  We did this prayerful planning (just last night in fact) in regards to a “Christmas Cookie Exchange” that we are hosting at our house next week.

Reflect During the Hosting – When we help someone to pause . . . or think about the Lord, we consider that a moment of “reflection.”  And our goal in hosting anyone is to allow the Lord to work in and through our lives as expressed in the Works of Mercy, thus helping people to reflect during the event itself.  A great example of when this happened was surprisingly during our 9 year old daughter’s birthday party!  We used this party as a way to introduce reconciliation to her friends that were experiencing relationship difficulties.  Our birthday activities, even including the craft, was designed introduce forgiveness and reconciliation to these little girls.

Reflect After the Hosting – If my wife and I hadn’t taken a few minutes to reflect on all of our 2013 hosting, we would have missed out on remembering the great things that the Lord had done.  We would have also missed out on understanding ways that we could grow in our hosting in 2014.  Just a few simple questions go a long way in examining our hosting events.

  • What was our plan?
  • What happened?
  • What did we learn?
  • Now What?  What should change or what should remain the same next time?

Perhaps Socrates most famous quote, “The unexamined life is not worth living” is true for the unexamined Christian life.  My wife and I certainly learned that there is truly a blessing in regularly reflecting on our Christian walk, and perhaps that blessing is even more significant when the discipline of reflection is practiced during the busiest seasons of life.

Posted in Opening Your Home, Presentation | Tagged , , | Leave a comment

A Letter To Western Christians Upon The Death Of A North Korean Brother You Never Knew

SUSA-KoreanFrom a fellow North Korean brother who chooses to remain anonymous but who believes Brother Park (name changed for family safety) should not.

Dear Christian Family of Brother Park,

You don’t know me.  I was a friend of your brother.  I know you never got a chance to know him, but I did.  I shared a prison cell with him in North Korea.  We were both in prison for the crime of being Christians and spreading the Gospel.

In North Korea there is no greater crime.

There is no easy way to tell you about your brother’s suffering and his death.  Four months after his arrest in North Korea, he died of starvation, disease and abuse in Room 5 of the prison – the cell reserved for those convicted of the worst and most heinous crimes.

But there is so much more to that story.  Your brother became my dear friend and I really want you to know him…so that you can rejoice with me that his suffering is over and he is now with our Savior.    I want you to know more than just how he died.  I want you to know the way he lived his life and the indelible mark he left on mine.

I think prison revealed your brother’s true character.  Our bodies bore the evidence of abuse and starvation, but your brother’s face reflected a peace I still cannot comprehend.  It isn’t that he was unaware or unaffected by the stark realities of prison.  But they did not rob him of his quiet dignity or his love of his family, his neighbors, his country, or his Savior Jesus Christ.

When he entered Room 5, he was assaulted by the sights, scents and sounds of hatred and fear.  But he knew love and hope could conquer hatred and fear, so he focused on those he loved and his desire that his country might one day find the hope in Jesus Christ.  And, he offered hope to me too, by sharing with me stories of his life and his efforts to reach his neighbors for Christ.  It is in these contrasts that I think you will see a true picture of who your brother really was.

Sights

Everywhere we looked, we saw disgust and hatred. It was in the dismissive glances of our guards and the piercing glares from our fellow prisoners.   We saw despair on their faces too…hopelessness.  In this room, the two of us had the least earthly reason to hope.  It was unlikely we would ever leave that room.  But, hope is exactly what I saw reflected in your brother’s eyes.

It was as if his eyes were seeing something else.  He would share with me the sights of his home – his wife in the kitchen cooking, his family sitting together to eat, the view from his window.  You have an English proverb that says, “The eyes are the window to the soul.”  Looking through that “window” we could see the love of Jesus.

Scents

The stench of Room 5 was overwhelming.  Eleven men, shoulder to shoulder in a dank cell…no water, no soap.  There was one shared toilet, but fellow prisoners blocked “traitors” like us from using it.  So, our clothes were soiled and we were in great pain.  Sometimes we’d smell the food given to other prisoners, though we were usually denied food and water. When they did give us food, it was usually unsalted meat that had gone bad and made us sick.   Even now, it is as if I can still smell that room.

But your brother would tell stories of the familiar scent of food in his home.  He knew that many of his neighbors were starving.  So, he and his family lovingly prepared food and shared it with their neighbors.  Often, neighbors would ask why they would share what little they had.  And, fearing death but fearing God more, he would share with them that he was following the teachings of Jesus.

Sounds

“Worthless traitor!” “Spy!” Those shouts were the sounds that punctuated our time in prison.  Screams of agony from the nearby interrogation room.  The constant taunting by guards and fellow prisoners.  “Why hasn’t your God saved you?”  “Just deny God and I will give you some food.”

But your brother would muffle these sounds by quietly singing his favorite hymn, “Father, I Stretch My Hands to Thee.”

Father, I stretch my hands to Thee,
No other help I know;
If Thou withdraw Thyself from me,
Ah! whither shall I go?

What did Thine only Son endure,
Before I drew my breath!
What pain, what labor, to secure
My soul from endless death!

He was a musician, and he told me how his home was filled with songs – even Bible songs he would share with his neighbors.

Your brother’s early life was quite unique for someone in North Korea.  His grandfather came to Christ after hosting two U.S. missionaries in South Korea in 1939, and then his entire family learned to follow Jesus.  When his father and their family were brought to North Korea from the South during the war because of his father’s unique skills, they learned to live out their faith more quietly.

For your brother, living out his faith meant sharing whatever he had with his neighbors.  But ultimately, he knew that what they hungered for could only be found in Jesus Christ.  He couldn’t be quiet any longer.

He started slowly.  Carefully sharing the gospel with one neighbor, then another.  He once told me he thought he must have shared the Gospel with more than 100 people during his lifetime.

Sadly, the rest of your brother’s story is not unique.  One of his neighbors finally reported his activities to the police.

When he discovered the police were seeking evidence against him for the crime of being a Christian, your brother and two others crossed into China.  While they were there, they studied the Bible, prayed with other Christians and waited on God’s direction.  After one month, your brother and one other man crossed back into North Korea and were quickly arrested and imprisoned.

I write to you today to honor my friend…your brother.

If you are a follower of Christ, you lost your brother when Mr. Park died.  There are hundreds and thousands of Christian brothers and sisters in North Korea who face the same fate.  Hebrews 13:3 (NIV) says, “Remember those in prison as if you were their fellow prisoners, and those who are mistreated as if you yourselves were suffering.” North Korean brothers and sisters continue to share the hope of Jesus Christ, though getting caught means almost certain death.   They spread the Gospel because they believe, just like in the words of your brother’s favorite hymn, that “The worst of sinners would rejoice, could they but see Thy face.”

 

Honor Brother Park by joining the 100 Days of Worship campaign. Click the link to learn more. 

Posted in 100 Days of Worship in the Common Places, North Korea, persecution, Uncategorized | Tagged , , | 5 Comments

Video – Jesus Isn’t Interested In Our End-Times Predictions And Theories

Pastor Tim says that Jesus isn’t interested in our end-time predictions and theories, but that certainly doesn’t mean that He isn’t concerned with eschatology.  Pastor Tim shares his all-time, favorite end-times quote, and in so doing reveals what  the heart of God is in relation to the last days.

For all of the latest podcasts on Presentation and on past Works of Mercy visit our Seoul USA Podcast Page!

Posted in Presentation, Videos | Tagged , | Leave a comment