My House Is To Small To Have You Over For Dinner

WLO_sharingbreadVisiting the homes of North Korean defectors is one of my favorite things to do while I’m in South Korea.  When I was in Korea last May, I had a crash course in Christian visitation, visiting the homes of 8 North Koreans in just a few days.  On my most recent trip, I was able to go back to one of the homes of the defectors I had spent time with last May.

The last time I visited this defector’s home, there were only two of us who visited – myself and a translator.  But on this particular visit, there were 8 people going over for dinner in addition to the husband and wife who lived there.  I was immediately concerned because I remembered that their apartment was rather small.  The only place for all ten people to gather was in their living room/bed room which was no bigger than most Western style master bathrooms.  I wisely kept my mouth shut, but I wondered how they were going to fit everyone in their house and I wondered how I would enjoy feeling like a sardine in their small living room.

When the evening came, we all filed into the apartment and although it was rather tight, we all found a place to sit in the living room.  Because there wasn’t much furniture in their house, we all sat on the floor, and although it was a little uncomfortable we still had a good time.

Before I even ate a bite of food that night, I learned something very valuable about the Works of Mercy of Sharing Your Bread and Opening Your Home.  I learned that these Works of Mercy aren’t dependent (or even related to) the size of your home or the quality of your furniture and decorations.

The Holy Spirit convicted me of this, because just a year earlier I had declined to host a Christmas party at my home because I didn’t think our family had enough space. Compared to the North Korean apartment that I ate in that night, our home was at least 5 times the size and of course we have a dinner table, a couch and some spare chairs if needed.

I was reminded that Sharing Your Bread relates more to our food as a gift from God than it does the size of our home.  It has more to do with understanding eating as worship than it does with the quality of the furniture, plates and silverware.  Sharing your bread has more to do with the fellowship around the table than the size of the table itself.

About tdillmuth

Pastor Timothy Dillmuth is the Discipleship Pastor of Voice of the Martyrs Korea. He oversees Underground University, a missionary training school for North Korean defectors, and does discipleship training with Christians from all over the world. Pastor Tim received a bachelor's degree from Zion Bible College and an M.Div. from Regent University. He lives with his wife, Melissia and their three children in Seoul, South Korea.
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6 Responses to My House Is To Small To Have You Over For Dinner

  1. Thank you. I really love your blog thoughts about fellowship and hospitality.

  2. Thanks for sharing!! It’s a good reminder for us to focus on what is truly important. Just as we are studying this week, when we ask “From where?”, we see that the Lord provides the space, the furniture, the food, etc. :>}

  3. tseongyosa says:

    Good job to get your local congregation involved in learning how to host!
    That’s what we call an O-move!

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