Prayer is Taught, Not Caught

Posted on September 11, 2013 by tdillmuth

Post by Pastor Tim – Our family has not arrived at the great pinnacle of discipleship, but last week there were four instances which helped me to see the growth in my children, specifically in the area of prayer.

1.  My wife was struggling with a 5 hour homework session with my 11 year old son.  As the hours mounted, my wife and son basically gave up out of sheer frustration.  When my nine year old daughter heard what was going on, she came down and laid hands on my wife and prayed for her.

2.  I spent an evening at my son’s school for an open house, and throughout the course of the evening I became sick.  On the way home, I missed our turn and when my son pointed it out I snapped at him.  It was at that moment, that my son bowed his head in prayer and prayed that God would help me to feel better.

3.  Even though we get 300 days of sun in Colorado, we also often get a daily, violent afternoon thunderstorm which lasts about 15-30 minutes.  This simple fact had kept us from staining the deck, due to the instructions on the paint can which said that it must be dry for 24-48 hours.  This past weekend, we decided to take the plunge and paint the deck.  I shared the concern about the rain with my 5 year old daughter, and right in the middle of staining the railing, she dropped everything and prayed that it wouldn’t rain.

4.  When we learned about a neighbor who had a death in the family, it was our children who immediately suggested that we pray for them.  They also came up with a few suggestions on how to help and comfort our grieving neighbors.

These four stories may not really seem like a big deal, but to my wife and I they were huge.  It helped me to realize that our efforts to disciple our children in prayer over the past year did make a difference.   We believe that prayer isn’t something that people just learn on their own, and it isn’t something that is caught, it is taught.

Over the past year, we have been teaching our kids how to pray for the sick, how to trust God through prayer and even how to pray the Lord’s Prayer and the Psalms.   And more than that, we have been demonstrating that prayer should permeate every area of our lives, not just at mealtimes and Sunday mornings.

If you have never thought of discipleship in regards to prayer, I invite you to commit to discipling someone in prayer.  Here are some ideas which may help you in that process:

  • Teach someone how you pray before meals.
  • Teach someone the Lord’s Prayer including an explanation of what some of the elements mean.
  • Laurence Hull Stookey has a method to teach children to pray.  If you have kids, use this method to teach them to pray before going to bed.
  • Learn a prayer from church history that you are willing to teach someone else.  Consider one of John Wesley’s prayers,

I am no longer my own but yours,
Put me to what you will
Put me to doing, put me to suffering.
Let me be employed for you or laid aside for you.
Let me be full, let me be empty.
Let me have all things, let me have nothing.
I freely and wholeheartedly yield all things to Your pleasure and disposal
And now glorious and blessed God, Father, Son and Holy Spirit,
You are mine and I am yours. So be it.
And this covenant now made on earth, let it be satisfied in heaven.

Amen

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From The Annals Of Seoul USA: Worship As Waiting On God (And Sometimes Just Waiting)

Posted on September 9, 2013 by Pastor Foley

SUSA-KoreanBack in 2002, in Southern California, one night—completely out of the middle of nowhere, when I was minding my own spiritual business and having no thoughts other than that I really loved living a mile away from the beach in a three story townhome with my wife and our grade school age children—at around 4AM God gave me a dream.

That kind of a thing had never happened to me before and has not happened since.

In the dream, God showed me—almost like in a movie trailer—that we would one day give up everything we owned,  everything we were, and everything we were doing to serve North Koreans.

The dream was amazingly, unbelievably, painfully vivid—there were nuclear bombs, Mrs. Foley’s traditional Korean dance, people dying of starvation, people grabbing onto us pleading for help, us evangelizing, us comforting people, security police on every corner closing in on us, and Mrs. Foley and I moving through it all with this supernatural confidence and purpose. It was absolutely wild. I can remember it as if it were yesterday.

I woke up in a cold sweat and sat bolt upright, just like people do in the movies. This was before either Mrs. Foley or I knew (or, frankly, cared) much about North Korea. I of course woke Mrs. Foley up and blabbered the contents of the dream breathlessly to her. She looked at me calmly, steadily, first in one eye and then in the other. And then she said a great saying that has transformed my life:

“If it is God, he will bring it to pass in his own time. Do not force it or you will end up with problems.”

You might think after a dream like that that I would want to keep talking about it, keep bringing it up to Mrs. Foley, keep thinking, “What does this mean????” But that is only because you have never had Mrs. Foley stare at you. Or rather, stare through you. So when she told me not to force it, I had a natural incentive to listen. I also had neither particular interest in nor connection to nor passion for North Korea. I had a lot more passion for Del Mar, California. And for our three story townhome. And for our family.

And for trying to figure out how to be married well to someone from a culture where when you wake them up and tell them about a dream, they stare through you—and at that moment you can see that they have more faith in God than you probably ever will.

Because it turns out that faith in God means a willingness—no, a resolute, unbending, unyielding, stubborn, irrational immovability—to wait on God. Without the slightest trace of fear of being left behind, wasting your life, missing the boat, or God going on ahead to do the thing he told you about without you.

That’s what I learned (OK, am still learning, forgetting, and re-learning) from Mrs. Foley about faith. It’s why back in 2002, I never saw the dream I had as life-defining. For all I knew, it was just a really weird dream that was related to me being married to a Korean woman, or seeing something on the news before going to bed, or eating dinner too late that night, or something like that.

So we went on with life, eventually moved to Houston, Texas, got involved in Korean church ministry, bought a house, and started sharing Korean culture with Americans. Mrs. Foley did traditional Korean dance, so I and our two oldest children learned traditional Korean dance, too. I loved Korean culture because I loved my Korean wife, and people seemed to enjoy it when we worked together to share it.

Which is how we came to start, as a hobby, a tiny little culture sharing nonprofit organization called Seoul Texas.

The rest—how Seoul Texas became Seoul USA and Seoul USA became a means by which Christians around the world could connect and partner with and learn from the North Korean underground church—is both history and current events. But the subject of today’s history lesson is this:

Don’t make history. Let God make it. When you and I make history, it means we are shaping history, rather than yielding on God to make it in our lives and around us and even through us. I am the poster child of the gracious truth that God still manages to use us even when we try to make history for him on our own. And I am Exhibit A in the learning lab that waiting on God is anything but passivity. When we act in an effort to bring God’s plans to pass, we act out of fear that he won’t act, or that he won’t act according to our timetable or preference. (Remember Saul the impatient king-turned priest in 1 Samuel 13:8-13?)

The Bible has a term for active, anticipatory, unyielding waiting on God.

That term is worship.

Want practice in waiting on God? Try doing it in public with your closest friends and family for the next 100 days. Go ahead—the North Korean underground church will wait for you—er, with you.

Click here to learn more about 100 Days of Worship in the Common Places.

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Video – Discipleship Happens, Whether You Like it or Not!

Posted on September 6, 2013 by tdillmuth

Pastor Tim shared that when he was a teenager, he didn’t think his dad was that cool.  Pastor Tim valued people like M.C. Hammer, Art Monk of the Washington Redskins and his youth pastor.  But despite who Pastor Tim highly valued, it was his father with whom he spent most of his time.  And it was in the context of spending time with his father, that Pastor Tim was discipled by his father.  Pastor Tim wasn’t aware that he was being discipled by his father, but it still happened.  We also see this idea in the lives of Elijah/Elisha and Jesus and his disciples.  Formal teaching and learning are important, but the informal side of discipleship is equally as important.

For all of the latest podcasts on Making Disciples and on past Works of Mercy visit our Seoul USA Podcast Page!

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